One marriage expert said that the most common questions emailed to him from women are: "How can I get my man to open up more about what he is really thinking? We had a great connection and now he feels distant. All he wants to do is sit on the couch and watch TV/play video games. How can I get him to want to communicate and connect with me? I know something is bothering him but he won't tell me what it is." It is no wonder that more couples divorce because of communication issues than anything else.